In Pursuit of Planthood
In my 26 earth-years of life, I’ve had four serious romantic
relationships. Of the four, perhaps the last two took the greatest toll
on my psyche, both having ended due to infidelity on the guy’s part. In
those two relationships, I have invested much and along the way, even
thought that the relationship would last. But, of course, my
commitment, love, and faithfulness weren’t enough to keep those
relationships intact. And both guys have disregarded what I’ve given.
But can I really blame them that I’ve given so much?
As
a male friend of mine said before, I couldn’t really blame these guys
because they didn’t ask me to give them my all. Or so they think.
That’s how all guys think. They say less but implied words to make
girls do what they want. And when girls have done these, guys would
just retreat and claim they never said or asked such things. Cowards.
Being tired from back-to-back cheating boyfriends, I’ve decided to give myself a much needed vacation.
I want to become a "Plant".
(So,
what is a "Plant"? How does one become a "Plant"? What reasons could
there be for being a "Plant"? I will answer these questions in my next
post. I’m feeling kind of tired already…)
November 25th, 2006 at 10:23 am
hello… hope eveything’s ok
ghed